Every way of being can be classified as good as well as bad, depending on the circumstances, person, and how it is received (meaning being on the receiving end of how someone is conducting themselves) or perceived. The freer we are of all the 'ways of being', the more the Self can express and BE in the most appropriate manner in every moment. It can serve our unfoldment greatly, to explore our ways of being, those we are not so comfortable with, that give us trouble, as well as those ways that don't. It can also serve well to explore what holds us back from being one way or another, eg being 'nice' or being 'mean' as that too hinders the expression of the Self.
As we feel blessed for all the gifts we have within ourselves and within our lives, we want to wish everyone the best for this holiday season and for 2014!